76 Happy Birthday Card Messages for Father-in-Laws

By Billie •  Updated: 04/22/23 •  13 min read

Father-in-laws can be a bit tricky to shop for, especially when it comes to their birthdays, but writing a thoughtful or lighthearted message in a birthday card can make a big impact and show your appreciation for all that they do and what they stand for.

Read on for ideas about what to write in a birthday card for your father-in-law. We have some great examples listed below, but ideally and to make your wishes extra-special, use them to inspire your own Happy Birthday Card Messages for Father-in-Laws:

i don't always say happy birthday, but when i do, it's only to legends

Examples of Simple Father-in-law Birthday Card Wording

  1. Happy birthday to the coolest father-in-law! May your special day be filled with all the things you love – cars, tools, and maybe even a little gardening.
  2. Wishing a happy birthday to the man who’s always willing to lend a hand in the garage or help out in the garden. You’re not just my father-in-law, you’re my partner in DIY projects!
  3. Happy birthday to my amazing father-in-law who knows how to fix a car and grow a mean tomato plant. May your birthday be filled with all your favorite things and may your garden continue to thrive.
  4. To the best father-in-law a guy could ask for – happy birthday! I always look forward to chatting with you about cars and hearing your gardening tips. Here’s to another year of great conversations.
  5. Happy birthday to the man who’s a pro at both fixing cars and growing a beautiful garden. You’re an inspiration, and I’m lucky to have you as my father-in-law. Enjoy your special day!
father-in-law with paper

Some Funny Birthday Messages for Father-in-Law

  1. Happy birthday to the man who never ages… or at least never admits it!
  2. You know you’re getting old when your favorite pastime is napping. Enjoy your special day, Dad-in-law!
  3. Wishing you a birthday filled with laughter, love, and a new set of tools to fix all the things we’ve been meaning to get around to.
  4. Another year older and wiser? Let’s focus on the older part for now. Happy birthday, dear father-in-law!
  5. Congratulations on another trip around the sun, dear Dad-in-law! May your beer always be cold and your lawn always be green.
  6. Happy birthday to the man who puts the “grand” in grandfather! Thanks for always spoiling us and being the best father-in-law a person could ask for.
  7. It’s your birthday and you can do whatever you want… as long as it doesn’t involve telling those same old dad jokes again!
happy birthday to my favorite father-in-law, from your favorite son-in-law

Examples of What to Write in Your Father-in-Law’s Birthday Card

  1. “Happy Birthday to the man who raised the person of my dreams. Thank you for being such a wonderful father and now an amazing father-in-law.”
  2. “Wishing you a happy birthday filled with joy, love, and all of your favorite things. Thank you for always being there for our family and being an incredible father-in-law.”
  3. “Happy Birthday to my second dad! You’ve been a source of strength and wisdom to me and our family. May your day be as wonderful as you are!”
  4. “On your special day, I want to express my gratitude for everything you’ve done for me and our family. You’re an amazing father-in-law and I’m so lucky to have you in my life. Happy Birthday!”
  5. “Sending you my warmest wishes on your birthday. You are a great role model and I’m proud to be a part of your family. Enjoy your special day to the fullest!”
  6. “Another year of life, another year of wisdom. Thank you for always being there to offer your advice and support. Happy Birthday, Dad-in-law!”
  7. “Wishing you a happy birthday filled with all the things you love. May your day be as wonderful as you are, and may the coming year bring you joy, happiness, and good health. Happy Birthday!”
  8. “Happy Birthday to the best father-in-law a person could ask for. Thank you for being a constant source of support, love, and guidance. You truly make our family complete.”
a phone call on your father-in-law's birthday is as good as a card

Funny Messages to Write in Your Father-in-Law’s Birthday Card

  1. Happy Birthday to the man who taught me how to change a tire, grill the perfect steak, and embarrass my spouse in public. Thank you for being an amazing father-in-law!
  2. To the coolest and most amazing father-in-law in the world, I wish you a very happy birthday! May your day be filled with laughter, love, and lots of cake.
  3. You’re not just my father-in-law, you’re also my friend and confidant. Thank you for always being there for me and for making me feel like a part of the family. Happy birthday!
  4. Happy birthday to my favorite father-in-law! May you live long enough to see all of your children and grandchildren become successful and happy.
  5. You may be getting older, but you’re still the coolest and most fun father-in-law I know. Here’s to another year of good health, happiness, and lots of laughs. Happy birthday!
  6. To the man who raised the love of my life and helped shape him into the amazing person he is today, I wish you a happy birthday filled with love, joy, and lots of hugs. Thank you for being such an important part of our lives.
  7. Happy birthday to my father-in-law, the man who has given me the gift of a wonderful spouse and a loving family. May your day be as special and wonderful as you are.
  8. You may be my father-in-law, but I feel like you’re my second father. Thank you for always being there for me and for your unwavering support and encouragement. Have an amazing birthday filled with lots of love and laughter!
  9. Here’s to a wonderful father-in-law on his special day! May you continue to be an inspiration to all those around you and may your birthday be as awesome as you are.
  10. Happy birthday to my amazing father-in-law! May your day be filled with all of your favorite things, including family, friends, and lots of delicious cake.
father-in-laws are dancing role models

Happy Birthday Messages for Your Father-in-Law (from Daughter-in-Law)

  1. Happy birthday to my amazing father-in-law! You make being part of this family so special. I’m grateful for all the wisdom, guidance, and kindness you’ve shown me since the day I joined your family. Enjoy your special day!
  2. To the best father-in-law ever, happy birthday! I feel so lucky to be part of your family, and I want you to know how much I appreciate everything you do for us. May this year be filled with joy, love, and plenty of golf games!
  3. Wishing a very happy birthday to my father-in-law, who always knows how to make me feel welcome in this family. You’re an amazing role model, and I hope I can be half the parent you are. May your birthday be as wonderful as you are!
  4. Happy birthday to the coolest father-in-law around! You’re not just my husband’s dad, you’re also my friend, mentor, and confidant. I’m grateful for all the laughs, stories, and advice you’ve shared with me over the years. Here’s to another year of being awesome!
  5. To my wonderful father-in-law, happy birthday! You’re one of the most genuine and generous people I know, and I feel lucky to have you in my life. I hope your birthday is filled with all your favorite things, especially the ones that involve chocolate!
  6. On this special day, I want to wish my father-in-law a very happy birthday! You’re an amazing father, husband, and grandfather, and I feel blessed to be part of your family. Thank you for always being there for us, and for making us laugh with your silly jokes.
  7. Happy birthday to the man who raised the love of my life! You’ve done an incredible job as a father, and I’m grateful for all the love and support you’ve given us. May your birthday be filled with joy, relaxation, and plenty of cake!
  8. To my beloved father-in-law, happy birthday! Your wisdom, humor, and warmth have made a huge impact on my life, and I’m honored to call you family. May this year be full of blessings, good health, and all the happiness you deserve.
  9. Happy birthday to the best fishing buddy a girl could ask for! Thanks for being the father figure I never had and for always showing me the ropes out on the water.
  10. Wishing you a birthday filled with sunshine, good company, and plenty of fish on the line! Thanks for always taking me out on the boat and teaching me the art of fishing.
  11. Happy birthday to the man who not only taught me how to fish, but also how to be a better daughter-in-law. I’m grateful for all the wisdom and love you’ve shared with me over the years.
  12. As your daughter-in-law, I feel so lucky to have such a kind and loving father-in-law. And as your fishing partner, I feel even luckier! Here’s to a birthday filled with big catches and even bigger smiles.
  13. They say that fishing is good for the soul, and I couldn’t agree more. Thanks for being the one to introduce me to this amazing hobby and for always making our trips out on the water so memorable. Happy birthday, Dad-in-law!
fishing at the shoreline

Happy Birthday Wishes to Father-in-Law (from Son-in-Law)

  1. Happy Birthday to my wise and respected father-in-law. You’ve always been there for me with your advice and support, and I hope this year brings you all the happiness and blessings you deserve.
  2. Cheers to the best father-in-law a son-in-law could ask for. Thank you for welcoming me into your family with open arms and for being a true role model. Have a fantastic birthday and enjoy your special day!
  3. Happy Birthday to the man who raised the woman of my dreams. Your guidance and love have made her the amazing person she is today, and I am forever grateful. Have an awesome birthday filled with joy, laughter, and love.
  4. Wishing my father-in-law a very happy birthday filled with all the things you love most. May this year bring you good health, happiness, and endless memories with your loved ones.
  5. On your special day, I want to express my heartfelt appreciation for all that you do. You’re not just a father-in-law but also a dear friend and mentor. Have a wonderful birthday and cheers to many more to come.
  6. Happy Birthday to the coolest father-in-law ever! Your energy and zest for life are truly inspiring, and I hope this year brings you many more adventures and good times.
  7. Today, we celebrate the man who has been a loving father figure to me. Thank you for always treating me like one of your own and for being a constant source of support and encouragement. Happy Birthday, and may your day be as special as you are.
  8. To the man who has a heart of gold and a great sense of humor, Happy Birthday! Your positive attitude and kindness make you a joy to be around, and I am grateful to have you as my father-in-law. Enjoy your special day!
  9. Happy birthday to the best golf partner a son-in-law could ask for. Let’s hope your swing is as smooth as your cake today!
  10. They say golf is a good walk spoiled, but with you as my father-in-law, every walk is a good time. Have a great birthday on the green!
  11. Another year older, but still driving those balls down the fairway like a pro. May your birthday be a hole in one!
  12. Happy birthday to the man who can play 18 holes and still have enough energy to give his son-in-law some golfing tips. Thanks for always keeping me on my toes!
  13. You’re the only father-in-law I know who can out-drive me on the golf course and out-party me at the clubhouse. Have a hilarious birthday filled with laughter, birdies, and eagles!
golfing with father-in-law on birthday

Birthday Prayers for Father-in-Law and Wishes for Good Health

  1. Dear Father-in-Law, on your special day, I pray that God blesses you with good health, happiness, and strength to face any challenge that comes your way. Happy Birthday!
  2. Wishing you a very happy birthday, dear Father-in-Law. May your heart be filled with joy, your body with energy, and your soul with peace. I pray for your good health and long life.
  3. Happy Birthday to my wonderful Father-in-Law! May God shower you with His blessings and grace, and keep you in good health always. You are such an inspiration to us all.
  4. On this special day, I want to wish my dear Father-in-Law a very happy birthday. May God grant you good health, prosperity, and a long life filled with love, joy, and happiness.
  5. Sending you warm birthday wishes and a prayer for your good health and well-being, dear Father-in-Law. You are an amazing person, and I am lucky to have you in my life. Happy Birthday!
  6. Dear Father-in-Law, I am grateful for your presence in my life. On your birthday, I pray that you receive abundant blessings, good health, and happiness. Have a wonderful celebration!
  7. Happy Birthday to the most wonderful Father-in-Law in the world! May your special day be filled with love, laughter, and good health. You deserve nothing but the best!
  8. Dear Father-in-Law, I am honored to be part of your family. On your birthday, I pray that God blesses you with good health, peace, and happiness. May all your dreams come true. Enjoy your special day!
  9. Wishing a very happy birthday to my dear Father-in-Law. May God keep you in good health and bless you with happiness, success, and love. You are a great person, and we all love you very much.
  10. Sending you warm birthday wishes and a prayer for your good health, dear Father-in-Law. May this year be filled with new opportunities, joy, and success. Have a fantastic birthday celebration!

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Father-in-Law

I’m sorry to hear about the passing of your Father-in-Law. Here are some example messages you could use to honor his memory on his heavenly birthday:

  1. Wishing you were here to celebrate your special day, but we know you’re having a heavenly party with all the angels. Happy birthday in heaven, Father-in-Law!
  2. Although you’re no longer with us, we know you’re watching over us from above. Happy heavenly birthday, Father-in-Law. We miss you more than words can say.
  3. On your heavenly birthday, we celebrate the wonderful life you lived and the legacy you left behind. You’ll always be remembered and loved, Father-in-Law.
  4. Even though you’re no longer here to blow out the candles, we’ll light one in your honor and remember the joy and love you brought to our lives. Happy heavenly birthday, Father-in-Law.
  5. We may not be able to hug you on your birthday, but we feel your presence in our hearts. Happy heavenly birthday, Father-in-Law. We love you and miss you dearly.

Conclusion

A birthday card can be a small gesture, but it can make a big impact on someone’s special day. With these Happy Birthday Card Messages for Father-in-Laws, you can show your appreciation and love for the man who helped raise the person of your dreams. Take the time to write a heartfelt message and let your father-in-law know how much he means to you and your family.

Related: Birthday wishes for your mother-in-law. Write a thank-you note your dad will cherish.

Billie

I like to climb mountains, read Nietzsche, and explore the West Coast. I have a BA from York University (2003) in Toronto, Canada, and yet on this site I sometimes spell like an American (know your audience). Thank you. Thank you very much.

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