Weddings are a time for celebration and joy, as two people come together to start a new chapter in their lives.
While religious blessings and prayers may be an important part of some couples’ wedding ceremonies, others may prefer to have a non-religious or secular ceremony. However, that does not mean that the couple cannot still receive blessings and well-wishes from their loved ones.
Looking for ways to bless a wedding or offer a toast without invoking religious language or traditions? Check out these non-religious wedding blessings and toasts that are sure to make your loved ones feel celebrated and appreciated on their big day.
Read on for some non-religious wedding toasts that can be used to offer love, support, and hope for a happy marriage.
- May your love for each other continue to grow and blossom with each passing day. May your journey together be filled with joy, laughter, and adventure.
- May you always remember the love and commitment that brought you together on this day. May your marriage be filled with kindness, understanding, and respect.
- As you begin this new journey together, may your hearts be filled with love, your minds with wisdom, and your souls with peace. May you face every challenge with courage and grace.
- May the love and joy you feel today continue to grow and flourish throughout your marriage. May you always be there for each other, through the ups and downs of life.
- May your love be a light that shines bright in the world, inspiring others to find happiness and love in their own lives. May you always cherish and support each other, and never take your love for granted.
- May your marriage be a beautiful adventure, filled with joy, laughter, and love. May you always be each other’s best friend and soulmate, and may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing year.
- May your marriage be a source of strength and inspiration, and may it be filled with all the things that make life worth living. May you always be surrounded by love and support, and may your journey together be long, happy, and fulfilling.
- May the love you share today be a shining example of the power of love and commitment. May your marriage be filled with trust, understanding, and mutual respect, and may you always be there for each other.
- As you start this new chapter in your lives, may your hearts be filled with love, your minds with understanding, and your souls with peace. May you always be guided by love, and may your journey together be filled with happiness and fulfillment.
- May your love be a blessing to each other and to the world. May your marriage be filled with joy, laughter, and kindness, and may you always find strength in each other.
- May the love you share today continue to grow and flourish throughout your marriage. May your lives together be filled with love, laughter, and adventure, and may you always support each other’s dreams and aspirations.
- May your love be a beautiful reminder of the goodness in the world. May your marriage be filled with love, trust, and understanding, and may you always find happiness and fulfillment in each other’s arms.
Non-Religious Wedding Reception Toasts
Wedding receptions are joyous occasions where family and friends gather to celebrate the union of two people in love. Whether you’re the newlyweds or a guest, it’s common to offer a toast to the couple before the meal and to say a blessing before the dinner. If you’re looking for non-religious wedding dinner blessings and secular wedding toasts, here are some examples to inspire you.
Secular Wedding Toasts
- “Here’s to the happy couple, may your love for each other continue to grow stronger every day. Cheers!”
- “To the newlyweds, may your love be as endless as the ocean and your happiness as endless as the waves.”
- “A toast to the bride and groom, may your life together be filled with love, laughter, and adventure.”
- “May the love and commitment you share today deepen with each passing year. Congratulations!”
- “To love, laughter, and happily ever after. Cheers to the happy couple!”
Non-Religious Wedding Dinner Blessings
- “As we gather here to celebrate the union of these two wonderful people, we offer thanks for the love and joy they bring into our lives. May this meal nourish our bodies and our souls, and may the newlyweds continue to inspire us with their love and commitment to each other.”
- “We are grateful for the love and happiness that has brought us together today. May this meal be a symbol of the nourishment and joy that the newlyweds will share in their life together. Cheers!”
- “As we come together to share this meal, let us give thanks for the love and companionship that has brought the newlyweds together. May they continue to grow together in love, understanding, and respect for each other.”
- “Let us take a moment to appreciate the love and devotion that the newlyweds share. May this meal be a celebration of their love and a reminder of the joy and happiness that they bring to each other’s lives.”
- “We gather here today to celebrate the union of two people who have found love in each other. Let us give thanks for this love and wish the newlyweds a lifetime of happiness together. Cheers!”
No matter what words you choose, a heartfelt toast or blessing can be a wonderful way to express your love and support for the newlyweds. These non-religious wedding dinner blessings and secular wedding toasts are just a few examples to inspire you as you toast to the happy couple on their special day.
Here are a few more options to consider in lieu of a traditional religious blessing before sitting down for the wedding dinner:
A Moment of Silence
- This is a non-verbal way to honor the couple and their love, as well as any loved ones who may have passed away and could not be present at the wedding. Allowing a moment of silence before the wedding meal is served provides an opportunity for guests to express gratitude in their own personal way, reflect on their blessings, remember loved ones who are not with us, and send good wishes to the couple. The Master of Ceremonies can announce this moment of silence by standing near the head table, bowing his or her head to lead the guests in the moment of reflection. After approximately 30 seconds, the Master of Ceremonies can raise their head and announce the serving style for the meal, whether it be buffet style or plated serving.
- Example: “Ladies and gentlemen, before we begin our wedding dinner, we would like to take a moment of silence to offer a prayer of thanks. Please join me in reflecting on all the blessings in our lives and take a moment to appreciate this special occasion. Thank you.”
A General Blessing
- A general non-denominational blessing can be used for any occasion and is not specific to weddings. It usually expresses gratitude, wishes for well-being, and unity among the group.
- Example: “Let us join together in a moment of gratitude for this beautiful day and the love and joy shared here today. We ask for blessings of health, happiness, and love for [couple’s names] and their families. May this meal nourish our bodies and souls, and may the bonds of friendship and family grow stronger. Thank you.”
Spiritual But Non-Denominational Prayers of Thanks
- This type of blessing focuses on giving thanks for the love and commitment shared by the couple and their families, as well as for the abundance of food and blessings in their lives.
- Example: “We come together today to give thanks for this joyous occasion, and for the love and commitment shared by [couple’s names]. We thank you for the blessings in our lives, especially for this delicious food before us. May this meal nourish our bodies and souls, and may the love and happiness shared here today continue to grow and flourish. Amen.”
How to Say the Non-Denominational Blessing for a Wedding Reception
- When giving a secular blessing, focus on gratitude over dogma. Acknowledge the couple’s love and commitment, and use inclusive language that does not reference any particular religion or belief.
- Example: “As we gather here today to celebrate the love and union of [couple’s names], let us take a moment to give thanks for the blessings in our lives, and for the love and joy that fills this room. We ask for blessings of health, happiness, and love for the newlyweds, and for all those present. May this meal nourish our bodies and souls, and may we continue to cherish the bonds of friendship and family. Amen.”
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