From the Heart: Craft a Meaningful Thank You Note For Any Gift [Christmas, Birthday]

By Billie •  Updated: 04/05/13 •  6 min read
send a thank you letter for that gift of chocolate almond bark
Mmm, chocolate almond bark — yes, please and thanks.

Everybody loves a thoughtful gift, and everybody loves the feeling of sending a thoughtful message appreciating that gift. But not everybody sends a written thank you note for a gift.

Thank you notes for gifts serve a few important purposes

Overall, thank you notes for gifts help to foster positive relationships and strengthen connections by demonstrating appreciation and thoughtfulness.

What to Say in a Thank You Note for a Christmas or Birthday Gift

Here’s a template to help you craft the perfect thank you letter for any gift at any time:

Dear [Name],

Thank you so much for the [gift] you gave me for my [birthday/Christmas]. It was such a thoughtful and generous gift, and I am so grateful.

I love [specific feature of the gift] and can't wait to [how you will use the gift].

Your kindness means so much to me, and I am so lucky to have you in my life. Thank you again for the wonderful gift.

Sincerely,
[Your Name]

Example 1: Thank-you note for thoughtful birthday gift

Dear Friend,

As much as I love cheese, I rarely buy exotic flavours for myself, so you can imagine how delighted I was when your gift arrived. A whole basket of the most delicious cheeses and gourmet crackers I’ve ever tasted! What a unique idea! You really know how to make a girl feel special. Now all I need is a good friend to share the snack and lazy evening of memories. What are you doing next Saturday?

Yours,

Cheryl

Example 2: Thank-you note for money gift

Dear My Favorite Aunt,

I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your (more than generous) cheque. All summer I’ve been saving up for a car, but it hasn’t been easy on a busboy’s pay. In fact, it was looking like I’d be spending another year riding the school bus. Now, because of you, I’ll have my own car by this weekend. Thanks for the best gift ever!

Sincerely,

Fred

Example 3: Thank-you note for Christmas / Holidays gift of food

Date

Dear Pablo,

The fruit tray arrived today and tempted us all to a mid-afternoon snack. Your selection had so many different little goodies–nuts, candies, cookies –- that even our finicky family eaters (I’ll not name names here) dove in with delight. Thank you for thinking of us in such a classy way. Our best to your household for a happy holiday season!

Sincerely,

The Gladstones

Example 4: Thank-you note for friend for Christmas Gift

Date

Dear Felicity,

You did it again—you sent the perfect gift! How could you know how much I needed new towels? Everything we have is early marriage, circa l990. The silver-and-green looks wonderful in both the master and guest baths. But then you know how I hate to save things for “company” use only. Big, beautiful, luxurious towels are a treat a woman needs almost daily, don’t you think? Thanks so much. Hope you and the kids had a great holiday yourself.

Love,

Pam

More examples of thank-you notes for different types of gifts:

Example 1: Thank-you note for thoughtful birthday gift

    Dear Friend,

    As much as I love cheese, I rarely buy exotic flavors for myself, so you can imagine how delighted I was when your gift arrived. A whole basket of the most delicious cheeses and gourmet crackers I’ve ever tasted! What a unique idea! You really know how to make me feel special on my birthday. Thank you so much for such a thoughtful gift.

    Best,
    [Your Name]

    Example 2: Thank-you note for a generous donation

      Dear [Donor’s Name],

      I am writing to express my deepest gratitude for your generous donation to our organization. Your support will help us continue to make a positive impact in the lives of so many people who need it most.

      Your kindness and generosity are truly inspiring, and we are honored to have you as part of our community. I look forward to keeping you updated on the progress of our work and the ways your contribution is making a difference.

      With heartfelt thanks,
      [Your Name]

      Example 3: Thank-you note for a beautiful piece of jewelry

        Dear [Friend’s Name],

        I wanted to take a moment to express my deepest gratitude for the beautiful bracelet you gave me for my birthday. It is absolutely stunning, and I can’t stop admiring it!

        Your thoughtfulness and generosity mean so much to me, and I feel incredibly lucky to have such wonderful friends in my life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for making my day so special.

        Warmest regards,
        [Your Name]

        Example 4: Thank-you note for a gift card to a favorite restaurant

          Dear [Friend’s Name],

          Thank you so much for the gift card to [Restaurant Name]! I can’t wait to use it to treat myself to a delicious dinner at one of my favorite places. Your generosity and thoughtfulness are always appreciated, and I feel incredibly lucky to have such wonderful friends in my life.

          Warmest regards,
          [Your Name]

          Example 5: Thank-you note for a meaningful gift from a loved one

            Dear [Loved One’s Name],

            Thank you so much for the beautiful necklace you gave me for Christmas. It is absolutely stunning, and I can’t stop admiring it! But even more than its beauty, what means the most to me is the thoughtfulness and love behind the gift. You know how much [something personal] means to me, and your support and encouragement mean the world to me.

            Thank you for being such an incredible partner, friend, and loved one. I feel so grateful to have you in my life.

            With all my love,
            [Your Name]

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